This
week’s assignment was to reflect on communication by watching the video “The
Art of Effective Communication”. There were three different types of
communication that was sent between two co-workers; email, voicemail, and face-to-face.
Communication between: email is what someone writes, voicemail is what someone
says, and face-to-face is how someone acts when standing in same area.
According to Dr. Stolovich, we see “communication is clear, concise, and
focused” (Laureate Education, Inc., n.d.). Sometimes, with using different
types of communications, Dr. Stolovich’s message can be lost. After watching
this video, we see how communication can be different within different
approaches.
Email
In
this, an email was sent to Mark from Jane. The email was very “clear, concise,
and focused” (Laureate Education, Inc., n.d.). Jane had a point to make, and
after reading the email, Mark would know what she was asking for. Jane needed a
report that had been missing. Jane was working on a project, and she needed the
data from Mark. Jane is worried about missing her own project deadline and
needs Mark’s report before she can finish her project. Jane was very polite in
her email to Mark.
Voicemail
In
this voicemail, Jane leaves a message for Mark, about his report being missing.
With Jane leaving this voicemail, it seems like her voice portrays this to be
more urgent than the email was. She is very nice about needing the missing
report and she does not blame Mark for the missing report. She just asks if he
could give her the report or the data from the report so she does not miss her
own deadline on her own project.
Face-to-Face
In
the face-to-face meeting with Jane, she seems more at easy and more relaxed
about not having the data she needs from the missing report to finish her
report on time. Jane seems more compassionate about Mark being busy and she
does not blame him for the report missing, as it seems she did in the
voicemail. Jane has strong "tonality and body language" as she is
talking face-to-face to Mark (Laureate Education, Inc., n.d.). In the
voicemail, Jane makes it seem like this report is urgent, but in this she seems
more relaxed and understanding that he has been busy all day.
"Communication is sharing the right
message with the right people in a timely manner" (Portny et al., 2008, p.
357). Communication needs to be done effectively and efficiently for any type
of message to be passed along. Personally, I like more face-to-face
communication. It helps me remember tasks I need to complete or to better
understand what is being asked. I also enjoy emails because they help remind me
on the things I have to do, and you do not get the sense if someone is upset or
angry with you. Voicemail is very hard
to decipher from because depending on the persons tone (that left the
voicemail), you may not know how important something is by the tone. Some
people are naturally relaxed even if stressed, and some people sound stressed
even when they are not. I personally do not like leaving voicemails because the
way people hear what you say could change everything that you stated in your
message. It is very important to always communicate with your team members. All
team members need to be on the same page when it comes to projects.
I
learned through these three examples: email, voicemail, and face-to-face that
you need to be careful the way you are communicating your messages. If you are
writing a message via email, you should always "begin with a clear
purpose, state the situation, and include possible solutions" (Laureate
Education, Inc., n.d.) When leaving voicemails, never let the person know you
are upset or angry with them. Try not to have too much tone in your voice. I
feel like angry voicemails are not going to get a good response as someone who
is nicer. Finally, with face-to-face, make sure your body language does not
suggest you feel differently than what or how you are saying something. I would
much rather have a face-to-face conversation with someone who is nice as
opposed to someone yelling in my face. In the end, it comes down to what type
of communication is better for each individual to get his or her overall
message to someone else. If you are better at writing, then email. If you are
better at speaking then maybe voicemail or face-to-face. We all have to
remember, "communication is not just a word", it is the way we share
our thoughts and ideas with other individuals (Laureate Education, Inc., n.d.).
Laureate Education, Inc. (Producer).
(n.d.). Introduction to scholarly writing: Purpose, audience, and evidence
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S. E., Mantel, S. J., Meredith, J. R., Shafer, S. M., Sutton, M. M., & Kramer,
B. E. (2008). Project management: Planning, scheduling, and
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I remember having an email conversation with a co-worker that became escalated to the point that supervisors and managers started to get copied on the correspondence. My manager came over to me and said, "you should probably get up out of your chair, walk over to her desk, and talk to her!' I did and an everything was worked out. We both misunderstood the tone in the email and we both continued to build more animosity based off of the perceived tone. Now whenever I get an email that sounds even a little bit edgy, I either call the person or go talk to them. It was a good lesson and like most good lessons, learned the hard way!
ReplyDelete-Jeniffer B
Good afternoon Beth. Your post made me think of the immense amount of time I spend on emails sometimes. When I write an email, I know that the true meaning of the message can be lost very easily if I am not careful. I find myself spending lots of extra time reading my emails over and over before I send them. Do you take this time as well as you are crafting emails? Have you been able to keep from sending the wrong messages by taking this extra time?
ReplyDeleteHi, Beth. While most posters appear to agree that email is the weakest of the three methods of communication, your post brings the interesting point to bear that tone can be even more subjective than the typed word! I find this to be a particularly intriguing position, and even as I read I was imagining a couple of situations where voice mail could be more disruptive than email. I consider a time where one or the other of the involved parties has an accent that is difficult for the other to understand or interpret. Different cultures have different inflections and intonations that could easily be misunderstood, while this would not happen in an email. Further, tone in general leaves much to the imagination.
ReplyDeleteThank you for pressing me to reconsider my position - or at least to look at it from a different angle!
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